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Inconsiderate drivers, rogue cyclists and misplacing money appear to be the most prominent aspects of British life that get people feeling hot under the collar according to a recently conducted survey.
Other anger-inducing situations include long queues, loud roadworks and train delays, which are all unavoidable factions of life for most of us.
Approximately one third of respondents hate it when motorists fail to use their indicators when making a turn, and 22 per cent have felt their temper flare when hearing someone talking about them behind their back.
It has been calculated that the average British citizen will become angry or frustrated fives times a week, translating into approximately an hour a half of rage across any given seven-day period.
One in eight claim they never get angry or frustrated under any circumstances, and are very much in the minority!
A spokesperson for Andrews Sykes, who commissioned the study, said: “Even with the best intentions in the world we are likely to spend hours or days of our lives feeling angry, frustrated and generally ‘hot under the collar’.
“Life is unpredictable, and many of these unfortunate circumstances which lead us to anger or embarrassment are caused by others, who might not realise they’re doing anything wrong at all.”
Strangers are most likely to be the cause of the nation’s frustrations, followed by annoying partners and irritating kids.
And 53 per cent of Brits think they are more likely to lose their rag with someone after a bad day at work.
A third of Brits think they are quick to anger, and 54 per cent have found themselves having to stop to take a breath, count to 10 and calm down when their anger becomes too much.
Forty-one per cent have been so hot under the collar in a confrontation with someone they have had to walk away in silence to themselves.
One in four find it best to calm their fires with a cup of tea, and 15 per cent shut their eyes and go to ‘a happy place’.
As well as anger causing their face to turn red, the average Brit will also feel embarrassed twice a week, or 112 times a year.
Brits reckon their partner is most likely to make them feel embarrassed, followed by their kids.
Of the parents surveyed, two thirds believe they have become more prone to embarrassment since having their children.
Fifty-six per cent of Brits literally blush – going pink in the face – when they are feeling embarrassed.
And 77 per cent of these blushers feel only more embarrassed when someone points out their flushed cheeks.
And two in five Brits think they embarrass easily.
A spokesperson for Andrews Sykes, which commissioned the study, added: “Whether hot under the collar or red in the face, it has been interesting exploring the aspects of Brits’ lives most likely to make us act irrationally.
“It is also good to discover the one in eight Brits who are able to keep a cool head even in the most frustrating circumstances, and the three in five who take embarrassing situations in good humour.”
The full survey results are listed below:
1. Which of the things from the following list make you feel ‘hot under the collar’? (Tick all that apply)
Choice %
When drivers don’t use their indicators 33.00%
330
Forgetting to close the last ‘specialist interest’ web page you looked at on your phone, then someone borrows it to google something 6.50%
65
Coming out of a toilet someone else has made a terrible stench in, then finding someone waiting outside who will think it was you 20.60%
206
Realising you’ve had a piece of spinach in your teeth for most of the afternoon 9.80%
98
Someone pointing out your flies are undone 8.40%
84
When someone makes you a sub-standard cup of tea 7.00%
70
Watching a sex scene in a film with your parents 13.80%
138
Talking about money – savings, salary etc 10.50%
105
When someone sends you an indecent photo 6.60%
66
Finding out someone has been talking about you 22.10%
221
Finding out your friends met up and you weren’t invited 14.30%
143
Hearing other parents swear in front of your children 12.80%
128
Finding out your child has watched an inappropriate movie when going to play at a friend’s house 5.20%
52
Finding out you have been kept out of the loop with client emails 7.50%
75
Realising you are the fattest person among your friends on a night out 9.50%
95
When someone gets promoted and has been at the company for less time than you 9.20%
92
Seeing a photograph where you don’t look your best 13.60%
136
Finding out the boss has been favouring someone else 7.40%
74
When you call someone by the wrong name and find out afterwards that you made the mistake. 12.30%
123
When someone asks you how many people you’ve had sex with 9.10%
91
When your parents talk about sex in any capacity 7.80%
78
When being asked your weight 11.80%
118
When being asked your age 6.30%
63
Having to answer the door in your towel and no make up 6.30%
63
Being asked your dress size 6.50%
65
When being the first person to arrive somewhere and having to sit alone for ages 12.90%
129
When trying to follow a satnav which keeps taking you the wrong way 15.30%
153
When you fall over/trip in public 23.20%
232
When someone sees/finds a baby picture of yourself 3.30%
33
When someone reveals the football score before you’ve had a chance to watch it 7.20%
72
When people talk about TV shows in the office but you’re an episode behind 6.70%
67
Asking people for money they owe you 22.90%
229
Having to get changed in a public space such as at the gym or swimming pool 11.50%
115
When someone asks for your number or asks you on a date 5.60%
56
When cyclists don’t obey the Highway Code such as skipping red traffic lights 25.00%
250
When a colleague doesn’t deliver their work on time 9.80%
98
When someone bails on plans you’ve had for ages 17.00%
170
When building flat pack furniture 13.90%
139
When sat in traffic 24.20%
242
When queueing for a long time 32.80%
328
When waiting for other people to make a decision 18.50%
185
When trying to get through tourists in London 11.30%
113
When on public transport 9.10%
91
When waiting for someone to get ready 16.50%
165
Train delays 22.20%
222
Walking out of the toilet with tissue paper stuck to your shoe 8.10%
81
When it’s a hot day and the building you are in has the air con turned up so you are actually cold 8.10%
81
When your team lose and their bitter rivals win 8.30%
83
When you break something in a moment of stupidity 23.10%
231
Losing your wallet 29.80%
298
Bumping your nice car 20.50%
205
Roadworks 22.40%
224
Interest rate rises 8.70%
87
Bank fees 14.00%
140
None of the above 2.40%
24
N/A – Not sure / Nothing makes me feel ‘hot under the collar’ 12.50%
125
2. In a typical week, how many times do you feel embarrassed? Please select best match where 0 means that you do get embarrassed, but less than once per week.
Choice %
0 25.80%
258
1 – 2 34.30%
343
3 – 4 13.10%
131
5 – 6 5.90%
59
7 – 8 3.30%
33
9 – 10 0.40%
4
11+ 0.80%
8
N/A – I never get embarrassed 16.40%
164
Average 2
3. Who is most likely to embarrass you or make you feel embarrassed?
Choice %
My dad 5.38%
45
My mum 9.21%
77
My grandparents 2.39%
20
My kid(s) 7.78%
65
My partner 13.76%
115
My siblings 1.91%
16
My friends 7.54%
63
Other people 8.49%
71
N/A – Not sure / nobody in particular 43.54%
364
4. Do you feel having children has made you more or less prone to embarrassment?
Choice %
More prone to embarrassment 8.73%
73
No difference 28.95%
242
Less prone to embarrassment 18.18%
152
Not sure 9.57%
80
N/A – I do not have any children 34.57%
289
5. Do your kids ever embarrass you?
Choice %
Yes, often 12.43%
68
Yes, sometimes 49.54%
271
No 38.03%
208
6. What’s the most embarrassing thing your kid(s) has said or done? If you are unsure or cannot remember, please select Not Applicable.
7. When you get embarrassed, do you tend to literally blush and turn pink in the face?
Choice %
Yes 55.62%
465
No 44.38%
371
8. When you turn pink from embarrassment, how long do you estimate you normally stay pink for, in seconds? Please select best match
Choice %
1 – 5 9.03%
42
6 – 10 13.55%
63
11 – 15 10.32%
48
16-20 10.32%
48
21-25 4.09%
19
26-30 13.12%
61
31-35 3.23%
15
36-40 1.94%
9
41-45 1.94%
9
46-50 0.86%
4
51-55 0.43%
2
56-60 3.87%
18
61+ 7.96%
37
Not sure 19.35%
90
Average 24.23
9. When you turn pink from embarrassment, do you find you get more embarrassed when somebody points out the fact you’re blushing/Would you get more embarrassed if somebody pointed out the fact you were blushing?
Choice %
Yes 77.42%
360
No 9.03%
42
Not sure 13.55%
63
10. To what extent do you agree or disagree with the following statement? ‘I embarrass easily.’
Choice %
Strongly agree 8.97%
75
Somewhat agree 31.10%
260
Neither agree nor disagree 27.87%
233
Somewhat disagree 23.33%
195
Strongly disagree 8.73%
73
11. In a typical week, how many times do you feel angry or frustrated? Please select best match where 0 means that you do get angry or frustrated, but less than once per week.
Choice %
0 10.10%
101
1 – 3 35.60%
356
4 – 6 17.20%
172
7 – 9 10.10%
101
10 – 12 7.80%
78
13-15 2.40%
24
16-18 1.00%
10
19-21 1.20%
12
22+ 2.10%
21
N/A – I never get angry or frustrated 12.50%
125
Average 5.08
12. How long will you typically feel angry or frustrated for before calming down, in minutes? Please select best match
Choice %
0-5 20.69%
181
6 – 10 21.60%
189
11 – 15 13.26%
116
16-20 8.00%
70
21-25 5.94%
52
26-30 7.54%
66
31-35 3.54%
31
36-40 1.03%
9
41-45 1.49%
13
46-50 0.23%
2
51-55 0.23%
2
56-60 0.57%
5
61+ 1.37%
12
Not sure 14.51%
127
Average 14.6
13. Who is most likely to make you feel angry or frustrate you?
Choice %
My dad 3.09%
27
My mum 7.43%
65
My kid(s) 8.34%
73
My partner 21.94%
192
My siblings 2.86%
25
Other people 25.83%
226
N/A – Not sure / nobody in particular 30.51%
267
14. To what extent do you agree or disagree with the following statement? ‘I lose my temper quickly.’
Choice %
Strongly agree 6.17%
54
Somewhat agree 25.49%
223
Neither agree nor disagree 22.06%
193
Somewhat disagree 27.77%
243
Strongly disagree 18.51%
162
15. Have you ever used the ‘stop and count to 10’ technique when you feel angry or frustrated?
Choice %
Yes, more than a few times 15.20%
133
Yes, once or twice 38.40%
336
No 46.40%
406
16. How well do you feel the counting to 10 technique works for you when you feel angry or frustrated?
Choice %
Very well 9.59%
45
Somewhat well 63.75%
299
Not very well 21.96%
103
Not at all well 4.69%
22
17. Do you ever use any other techniques to try and prevent anger or frustration?
Choice %
Squeezing a stress ball or something similar 6.51%
57
Thinking of a ‘happy place’ 14.86%
130
Going to make yourself a cup of tea/coffee 24.11%
211
Take a deep breath 38.51%
337
Going for a run/some exercise 13.94%
122
Walking away from a situation without saying anything else 40.69%
356
Other techniques 3.43%
30
N/A – Not sure/ nothing in particular 27.66%
242
18. To what extent do you agree or disagree with the following statement? ‘I’m more likely to get angry or frustrated when I’ve had a bad day at work’
Choice %
Strongly agree 17.49%
153
Somewhat agree 35.77%
313
Neither agree nor disagree 35.77%
313
Somewhat disagree 3.31%
29
Strongly disagree 7.66%
67
